Life Lessons


"Figuring out our gifts in life is part of our journey to becoming enlightened human beings.” – Allison DuBois

Monday, October 29, 2018

Sisterhood

Song - Sierra by Boz Scaggs



Fall was definitely in the air up at Donner Lake this past weekend with warm days and crisp nights.  Leaves were dropping and swirling on the forest floor.



It was our 11th annual Girls Weekend and on Friday we headed up to the Sierra's for a few days of sisterhood, visiting, reading, shopping, relaxing, food and music.....oh......and quite a few laughs!




However this year things didn't go quite as planned. As Ellen and Barbara almost got locked up in the Truckee Jail!!!  This jail was used continuously from 1875 to 1964 and besides the two prisoners above, it has held notorious criminals such as Baby Face Nelson, Ma Spinelli and Machine Gun Kelly!  However, after we bailed these two out, we just went next door for a good cup of coffee.....


In historic downtown Truckee we did a lot of shopping and a little sightseeing







and we had a wonderful lunch together........




 ...at Moody's Bistro. (we were supposed to be mimicking the lady in the poster behind us but some of us - certainly not me - got confused)!



In the afternoon we relaxed around the cabin and then Ellen gave us a short but delightful talk on her passion of raising honeybees!  So many questions about the life of this very important little critter!




We played a late night game of Scrabble.....




I erased some of the words because of your delicate ears.....



But I promise....there was absolutely NO drinking involved!


"Just remember if we get caught, 
you're deaf and I don't speak English." 

 --Annonymous



PS - The menfolk seemed to adjust to their womenfolk being gone from the homestead just fine!




Thursday, October 25, 2018

Adding to the Family Tree

Song - Baby Mine by Bette Midler




Two years ago our son Andy married this wonderful woman Ashley.......







And this March we will be adding another branch on our family tree......



So very excited for these two on their new adventure!


"A mother is always the beginning.  She is how things begin."

--Amy Tan


Tuesday, October 23, 2018

Our Sunset Chickadee

Song - Little Bird, Little Bird by Elizabeth Mitchell




 As many of you know, we have had a Chestnut Backed Chickadee living in our outdoor light fixture on our back deck.  He/she comes every evening at sunset and although the last few nights I have set up my tripod & camera to catch this fast little being coming in for a landing, I just can not seem to be fast enough......




 .....until now!  

She comes just before sunset and gets a drink of water and a bite to eat.  Sometimes she will stay in the nearby tree and other times she flies off for awhile only to return shortly.



 She always lands on this same branch on our October Glory Maple tree and checks out the situation.  Some evenings she calls out and other times she just observes for awhile.




 The other night I had everything set up and I focused my camera on the light fixture instead of the tree.  And I waited.....and waited......




 ....she flew from the tree, under the umbrella and up to the fixture quickly.




 She grabbed hold of the base of the fixture.....





 ....and pushed herself up inside.......




....and left me waiting right where I began!


Only now I had a big smile on my face.....



"The chickadee and the nuthatch are more inspiring society than statesmen and philosophers, and we shall return to these last as more vulgar companions."

--Henry David Thoreau

Thursday, October 18, 2018

Cracker of a Day

Song - Autumn Leaves by Nat King Cole





A few photos from the garden and travels this year......



"I would rather sit on a pumpkin and have it all to myself, 
than be crowded on a velvet cushion."

--Henry David Thoreau

Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Praying

Song - Wishin' and Hopin' by Dusty Springfield



This morning I went out to the car to run some errands and who do you think I found?







I haven't seen a Praying Mantis in over 20 years.

Luckily I was putting some shopping bags in on the passenger side so I spotted him before driving away. They are considered beneficial insects as they like to dine on flies, crickets, moths and mosquitoes......and sometimes the female will eat her mate!!!






After this series of "head shots", I carefully moved her from the car to a nearby bush.



"Praying Mantis Folklore"


  • In some parts of Africa, it is considered good luck if one of these curious creatures lands on you.

 --From the Farmers Almanac 1792

Monday, October 8, 2018

The Sky is Falling

Song - The Sky is Falling by Chicken Little





 Last week I woke up early and went out on the deck to watch the sun come up.  
I love this time of year when it's comfortably warm in the day time but at night and in the early morning it's crisp. 






Later in the week we had a sky full of clouds with only a few drops of rain.  It was fun to watch the clouds sweep across the dark sky. It defiantly felt like fall.




Most nights Mr. B and I like to sit on our back deck in the evening.  We have a glass of wine and talk about our day or make a plan for the future and enjoy the various birds in the yard.


One little chickadee has lived in the light fixture shown above for the past two years. We are not real sure why he or she has chosen this as her permanent home but it has been fun to greet her each evening right before sunset as she first lands in a nearby tree and makes a little call.  She checks to make sure that it is safe and in the blink of an eye she flies from the tree, under the deck umbrella and up into the light fixture!


Last night I thought I would finally catch a photo of her.

I set up my tripod about an hour before sunset and put the camera on "Machine gun fire" so I would hopefully capture her approach and quick entrance.


But nope....with no warning call...........she was in there lickety-split......dang......

 
It was a wonderful evening and we lit a candle as the sky darkened and then I saw this......






Aliens?



Helicopters?


It lasted for several minutes and then "poof" it just disappeared.

Later we found out that Vandenberg Air Force Base had launched a SpaceX Falcon 9 rocket on the west coast.  We didn't know about it before hand but were glad that our little bird helped us to experience the sight!



"It's not the falling down that counts.  
It's the getting up."
--Mary Pickford



Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Just Fishing

So sorry if you receive this twice but I accidentally posted this on my painting blog instead of my personal blog!

Song - Belted Kingfisher sound


Monday morning I woke to a gathering of Cedar Waxwings on the bare tree in our backyard creek.  Since the sun was behind them I had trouble getting a good photo.




But trust me, they were Cedar Waxwings with their beautiful eyeliner showing.....





On Tuesday, as the sun was setting, a Belted Kingfisher landed on the same tree and posed for about 20 minutes. You can spot him right?



  He even stayed there while I ran inside for my camera and found a better spot to photograph him from. 






 Mr. B and I hear them all day long going up and down the creek looking for fish but it is rare for one to sit this long.





Thanks little guy as it was a good way to end my day!

"Nature always wears the color of the spirit"

--Ralph Waldo Emerson

Monday, September 17, 2018

Simple Pleasures


Only two small patches of snow left on Mt. Tallac.  Wonder if they will make until the next snowfall. Some summers I have been on this same beach and the mountain will be covered with snow. It’s most impressive feature is that a cross is formed in two small ravines near the top.









Love this little Western Aster growing near the cabin.  There are so few wildflowers this year due to our dry winter but don’t worry.....





As there are plenty of chipmunks, squirrels, bears & Stellar Jays to keep me entertained!

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

The Mountains Are Calling




In the mountains of Tahoe, I am at my second home.  My grandparents, father & uncles built a little cabin here in the late 1950’s on Forest Service land at the base of Mt. Tallac.  For me it’s my heart & souls place to reconnect with nature and myself. 



Over the weekend all three of our sons and their wives or girlfriends came up to join us. My heart was full seeing them share their boyhood memories with their significant others. 




On Saturday we spent the day at the beach and then had dinner at the cabin. Sunday we drove to Angora Lake were they rented a boat and rowed around the little Alpine lake.   We had planned to go out to dinner but the traffic around the lake was so bad that I made a big bowl of Pasta Salad & we enjoyed another evening at the cabin visiting & playing Canasta!  Everyone took off early on Monday so Mr. B & I have been relaxing. 



Saturday, August 25, 2018

Stand By Me

Song -  And I Love Her by The Beatles






Thirty nine years ago Mr. B and I said "I Do!" 

We look so serious during our outdoor vows. 




I love the twinkle in my dad's eyes as he hands me off to Mr B. 

I'm thinking that he is wondering if we "kids" know what we are getting into.



We all look a bit more relaxed now that the service was over and the party was about to begin!




Mr. B's brother Bob (in gray) was a classically trained French chef 
and he graciously agreed to cater our reception.





The usual cast of friends (Mr. B and his friends from Chico) were there ready to cheer us on....



My mom and Mr. B dancing with his white man's overbite!!!



Me with my niece Katie and my two brothers Tim and Dave.




Cake cutting time and as I remember we had a carrot cake, a chocolate cake and a vanilla cake 
(guess we couldn't make up our minds).  
Our cake knife was given to us by Mr. B's sister Kristy.


Then Mr. B did the unthinkable.....



I can still hear my mother yelling "Don't you Dare" from across the room!




Time to gather up your bride Mr. B.....



A quick change of clothes and we are off on our honeymoon!




Driving off into the sunset in our chariot......
 err I mean our Toyota Corolla!



Thanks Mr B for 39 years of magic and love! 



"Before you marry a person you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet to see who they really are." 
—Will Ferrell






Friday, August 24, 2018

'Tis A Gift

Song - Take Me Home by Phil Collins





Happy to be at home and painting again!  Above is a painting that I started yesterday of a bouquet of peonies.  The photo reference was taken this spring in Paris. (see below)





Can you believe this beautiful and massive bouquet taken through a shop window?




"Just living is not enough....
one must have sunshine, freedom, 
and a little flower."

--Hans Christian Anderson
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