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Showing posts with label family tree. Show all posts
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Thursday, October 25, 2018

Adding to the Family Tree

Song - Baby Mine by Bette Midler




Two years ago our son Andy married this wonderful woman Ashley.......







And this March we will be adding another branch on our family tree......



So very excited for these two on their new adventure!


"A mother is always the beginning.  She is how things begin."

--Amy Tan


Tuesday, May 23, 2017

The English Countryside

 

The last few days we have been white knuckling through the beautiful English countryside....so green....dotted with sheep & cows...so serine but we are driving!!!  We have visited 8-10 family villages & churches, all on tiny one lane roads surrounded by hedgerows.  As on pub guy said "you can't be nosy in Somerset!"   



 


Mr. B has been amazing with his reading of many ancient headstones that might pertain to my dad's side of the family.  


 

And speaking of taking one for the team......He is even willing to order a dram so he can talk to he local barkeep to find out about any connections to my family in the village. So far it's been very colorful. 




 


Women were subservient in that generation....obviously...as she was only listed on his headstone by her first name and that she was his wife.  

Lots of 1200-1500 a.d. churches that we explored and met some amazingly nice people along the way.  



 


And even a very tired Westie named Gordon who had been walking all day was at out hotel bar.  




 


Finding my great-grandparents headstone was worth shedding a few tears.  They were very poor and somehow their daughter, Sarah Routley Tuckfield Gore managed to make it to Canada - single - with about 9 kids.  And somehow my grandmother, Violet Elizabeth Bacon Gore Crawford, moved from Montreal with my Granddad to Oakland, California to start their family. 


 

Here's to my family roots - Tea & scones at the railroad station where my great-grandfather was station master. 


Word of the Day - Brilliant = good choice in America (we hear this one a lot)!!



Sunday, May 21, 2017

Arches, Arches & Arches

Day 5 - Friday

We drove from Bath to Bradford-on-Avon to Wells and then on to our final stay in Dunster.  A very long, long, very long day.  Mr. B learned to drive on the "wrong" of the road and the "wrong" side of the car today.  We are both exhausted.  Besides me being his second set of eyes on the road - street signs, round abouts, pedestrians, bicyclists, speed limits, road closures, there was so much hedgerows that there were many times you could not see oncoming traffic around turns.  Anyway 2 tire rims & 1 side mirror later we survived!

 

Bradford-on-Avon was such an amazing, well kept village. We went to the Tithe barn (c1300's) where the ceiling was filled with wooden arches. We also visited the town & church then headed to Wells Cathedral. 

 

It was closed for a funeral until 4 so we had lunch in the old city center just nearby. Then we walked over to the Bishops Gardens to see the famous Ringing Swans. However apparently the don't ring anymore.  Now if you don't know the story, I'll fill you in....there was an American couple who lived in one of the moat towers and one of them would be present all day so they taught the swans to ring a bell and they would get a little food so all the swans learned to ring the bell and they taught their babies to ring for food. Just this year the couple moved back to the states so there isn't anyone to feed them regularly.....no more Ringing Swans.  But.....


 

....there were 7 week old baby cygnets to enjoy ( I think daddy kept his head underwater most of the time we watched them!)

 

There were several croquet games going on with a beautiful backdrop. 

 

The cathedrals famous scissor arches which were built into the building to support the sinking towers in the 1300's.

 



 

And the astrological clock that goes around every 15 minutes. Can you see the jousters on horseback up near the top? They go around the pillar - 2 in one direction & 2 the other - with their lances out and try to knock off the other guy, which they do until there is a "winner".  

We will be spending the next three nights in the medieval village of Dunster.  



Day 6 - Saturday

Scones & tea for breakfast - I never thought I would see Mr. B enjoy a church or a tea room but give him some history and he's a sport!

Mr. B learn to drive - Day 2 - only 1 rim and we are both relaxing a little more. Like he says " it's like being in the dentist chair all day" (sorry John K. Certainly not yours!)



 

On through Exmoor park to Bishops Nympton in Devon. Found The Black Cock Inn. Had a drink & spoke to the barkeep & owner.  She was new to the area and had no history of the area or even the age of the pub.  Oh dear.  We walked over to the old RR station house next door where my dads mother was born.  Her father was the RR station manager there.  Grandma Violet & Daisy (twins)were born in 1890.  It's a residence now so we couldn't nosy too much. It began to rain so we drove along the street to view the RR arches. 


 


Above are the old railway arches beside the train station. 


Beautiful green countryside dotted with sheep!


Then we drove to Wiveliscombe and tried to find lunch at 3pm. No go and we were both starving so we hit the local supermarket and bought sandwiches, crisps and drinks and sat in the churchyard to eat. We found James & Maria Tuckfield's headstone with help from the photo I brought. 


 


These were my great grandparents. We went inside the church & spent some time looking around - old baptismal, ancient graves.  Drove down Rotton Row behind the church where they used to live and barely made it as it was so narrow. 


Exhausted from driving & navigating-coaching, we headed back to Dunster & the hotel bar.  Took our drinks out back to "The Secret Garden" & Facetimed our family. Great to see their smiling faces!!!


 


Showed them the castle on the hill behind our hotel & lots of beautiful flowers. I guess flowers like water even more that sunshine because they are huge and plentiful here!


 


Night....

Word of the day - British word "Sorted" = it's all taken care of


Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Our Family Has Grown

Song - Family Tradition by Hank Williams Jr.




Some chapeau huh?  

I have been working on my family tree since I was a teenager and would record my Italian grandparents stories and share family photos.  It is something I have always been fascinated by.  It is kind of like putting together a puzzle and making sure everything fits.

Since September 17th, I have an even larger family thanks to Andy & Ashley's wedding!

The woman in the photo above is named Amy Wilson Ross 
and she is Ashley's second Great-Grandmother. 
Isn't she a beauty?





This is her husband, George Clark Matson -
Ashley's second Great-Grandfather.



Above is a "selfie" taken in the 1870's. Such a handsome couple.





Then they had children.....
and her sister moved in....


Mama is looking pretty good still but dad is losing his spark.
They had 3 more children after this was taken.
Just imagine that photo!


A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots. Marcus Garvey
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"A people without the knowledge of their past history, 
origin and culture is like a tree without roots." 
--Marcus Garvey

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Boo!

Boo and Happy Halloween!!!



Song - Monster Mash by Bobby (Boris) Picket and the Crypt-Kickers




I just discovered that I have been avoiding painting.....again.

I think it's because I am struggling with acrylic's vs. oils.

Acrylics = easy to use & clean up

Oils = Juicy, buttery and great blending

After my last workshop in Santa Fe, I found myself loving oils and now I find myself doing all kinds of antics instead of painting.  Even cleaning the house!

 
Family Tree work....must be done!

Todderdown, England
** I discovered a GG Uncle that was sent to Australia because he killed 6 people and was hanged. Yipes! Just in time for Halloween!

And I have relatives that lived in Todderdown, England - named because it was built on hills and valleys so you just had to "todderdown" the lanes.



Laundry and housework must be finished!

** I washed the dogs this morning and then sprayed the bathroom with bleach and then promptly forgot to wash it down.  Wow it really smells clean.



The studio needs to be reorganized!

** I have been placing paintings and boxes of equipment in the studio because there isn't any room for it elsewhere but yesterday I spent an hour cleaning it up so I could paint.





Posey
Oh yeah...and the Giant's won the World Series.  Last week at this time we were at the First Game of the World Series and I was in doubt that they would make it.  But they did and we had a blast watching them!

Tyler's pumpkin

Romo







Most importantly the PUMPKINS must be carved!!



Mr. B Carving his Witch pumpkin
My very scary pumpkin eater!!!




Mr. B's Witch Pumpkin



A grandmother pretends she doesn't know who you are on Halloween.  ~Erma Bombeck

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Climbing Trees

Song - My Father's Eyes by Eric Clapton



I know I have been absent for awhile but I have found this new "obsession".

It is actually an old obsession that I just picked up again in the last few weeks.

When Mr. B and I were first married, I was fascinated to do some research on both of our family trees.  I interviewed all of the relatives and began combining notes and bits of papers with information written down. 

But back then everything was by "snail mail" and it would take forever to get birth certificates, census reports, etc.










Guess what?





You will be amazed........there is this new thing called "THE INTERNET"!!!









It is so incredible to find family members.....FAST!

The St. Paul - the ship my dad's family took from England to Canada






You can Google map homes your relatives lived in because their address is on the Census report or birth certificate.


My dad's parents lived here when he was born.


Or you can find photos of the church your grandparents were married in, or little country towns that they worked in the fields as farmers.


St. Jude's Church in Montreal, Canada where my dad's parents were married

Santa Maria in Cloz, Italy where my mothers family was from










































It is just absolutely amazing.



I think I have a tiny problem because I can't seem to stop....even for meals....Mr. B has to cook and clean and do the laundry now!

Crowcombe, Somerset, England where the family were farmers



You travel through different countries and history.


England

Census Report

 
Sometimes a little detective work is needed to make sure everything links up.





And sometimes it's difficult to decipher old handwriting. 





BUT.......sometimes there is a surprise in your tree......








This little guy with a smirk on his face is my dad.













This woman was his grandmother, Sarah.........






So even though the Crawford Castle is in ruins.....(sorry dad), we still can say that we spent a little time in 1474 building this......



Take a bow!


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