Life Lessons


"Figuring out our gifts in life is part of our journey to becoming enlightened human beings.” – Allison DuBois

Monday, December 31, 2018

A Wild New Years Eve

Song - Celtic New Year by Van Morrison









On New Year's Eve Day Mr. B got us some great yummy sandwiches from our neighborhood deli Morucci's and I packed a picnic basket with Prosecco, linen napkins, crystal goblets, chips and cookies.  We picked up my mom & her sweet dog Buddy and headed to Danville.



Past the town of Danville and out towards Mt. Diablo where there is still farm land, cows, wild turkeys, deer and sheep.



Did I mention that the sky was a brilliant blue but it was cold and oh so windy?  Brrr......it truly felt like winter! 



Our destination was the Tassajara One Room Schoolhouse on Finley Road because I knew it had picnic tables and some history that my mom probably did not know about. But it was oh so cold!




Mom spotted a little wooden table inside the "garage" so that we were protected from the wind but could stand in the sunshine and eat our lunch.




Narcissus bulbs surround the property and are about to burst out.  Buddy sniffed and explored but even he was chilled. We popped the bubbly and toasted to the New Year then.....




...... we took a quick little photo shoot while the wind whipped our hair and we hurried to the warmth of the car.




And enjoyed the Oaks and hills with the heater on!





....and the variety of animals nearby......(one is a lama and the rest are goats or sheep).






"Can you remember who you were, 
before the world told you who you should be?" 
--Danielle Laporte




Tuesday, December 25, 2018

A Hummer of a Christmas


 Song - Dueling Jingle Bells by the US Navy Band




'Twas the night before Christmas.......and Santa came to visit to the delight of all the children and even some of the adults! The stockings were hung by the chimney with care.......



....and on Christmas morning our three boys and Ashley, Monica, Jacque and Chewy arrived with a twinkle in their eyes............



............and some of them dressed festively for the occasion with outfits from previous years.

We had just settled down to open some presents when out in my office there arose such a clatter.....I sprang from the couch to see what was the matter.......Away to the office window I flew like a flash, closed all the shutters and threw up the sash. When what to my wondering eyes should appear.....





.....but a miniature hummingbird so lively and quick....

Trapped and frightened and we all had different ideas on how to help him back outside.....we opened the windows & took off the screens, opened the doors, gently trying to herd him to the openings, perhaps with a net suggested Mr. B?  As the poor little creature flew near me I gently reached out and caught him in my hand.




His eyes how the twinkled, his nose - what nose - his head and neck like a cherry and I laughed when I saw him in spite of myself! A wink of my eye and a twist of my head......told the little creature he had nothing to dread.

We all walked outside while I released him and away he flew, like the down of a thistle.  But I heard him exclaim, as he flew out of sight....Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night!


"A hummingbird is just like a regular bird......
except it doesn't know the lyrics."
--John Brown



Sunday, December 16, 2018

The Big Night

Song - Tarantella by Beppe Gambetto, Carlo Aonzo & David Grisman



On Saturday night our family had a cousins reunion......
let me introduce you to the Malacarne Family!




These are my grandparents, Art & Sophie Malacarne.  They had four daughters and each daughter had three children - my cousins.  The cousins spent a lot of time together growing up because the sisters were so close and........we're Italian. So they are more like my siblings than my cousins.  Great memories there!





 This photo was taken at the family cabin in Lake Tahoe with all twelve grandchildren and our Grandma Sophie (on the right) and her mother Grandma Mary (on the left).

Can you tell we had fun together?




 For many years Art & Sophie would host a Christmas get together on Christmas Day but the families grew too large once we started marrying and having children of our own.  But we still have that Malacarne bond. So every 5-10 years someone would host a reunion, usually in the summer months.
Last year the "boys" decided to host a Christmas party at a local restaurant. 




It was great to get together but the sitting arrangements were to tight to get up and go visit anyone else other than the people sitting next to you.

So Saturday night it was the cousins turn to host and invite the two remaining daughters - my Aunt and Mom at a new place that turned out to be perfect!



Being the family historian, I was in charge of the slide show and music for the event. Six hundred and sixy-four photos later.........they are still talking to me!



We have aged just a smidgen since the photo above in Lake Tahoe.







 But we still enjoy each others company and getting caught up on family events.  Even the "out-laws" have fun. (They are the SO's who are honorary cousins)





A great night and thanks to those "boy" cousins who know how to throw a proper shindig!!!





 Love each and everyone of you!



"The bond that links your true family 
is not one of blood, 
but of respect and joy in each others life."

-- Richard Bach

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

'Tis Autumn

Song - 'Tis Autumn by Red Garland





Picked a basket full of Lady Apples the other day and I hope to prepare them for the freezer after having a few fresh ones on top of our salads.





The dogwood tree is enticing me with her beautiful colors.....



And our October Glory Maple is changing overnight into a show stopper.  Every Thanksgiving we take family photos in front of this tree when she is at her peak.




However, everyone is not on the same page - "It's Autumn" so why are my spring bulbs blooming now? Confusing weather we are having?






While I was filling up my bird feeders this morning, I noticed this hawk flying high in the sky looking for some tasty tidbit. As I walked over to our creek, I saw some large water rings and figured there was a large fish beneath the surface.  Then there were more and a creature came up for air.....there were two otters playing!  They slowly made their way downstream before I could grab my camera.  But I'll tell you - it was magical!



"Happy Fact: Otters hold hands while they sleep 
so they don't float away from each other."




Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Pre-Boo

Song - Werewolves Of London by Warren Zevon





Every Halloween Mr. B and I enjoy coming up with a design and carving our pumpkins.  For the last few years we have made it into a small party with family.  So on Sunday night........





The table was set with parsnip & carrot noses, carving tools and designing tools as well as gut buckets.  Andy even got out the power drill (behind the "noses").





As we began to work our magic everyone got quieter and quieter.......until.......




...Buddy showed up in his Lion costume and we all cracked up as he was so proud of his new look!





Ashley finished her pumpkin fast so she could have some cuddling time with Buddy-the-Lion.






After that Jack-O-Lanterns started popping out all over the place!



And the winner of this years event was Walter's sideways scary pumpkin!

Yikes!!!




 Then we all settled down for some delicious Tortilla Soup & Corn Bread.......






.......with our Jack-O-Lanterns lighting the night.



 As guests were leaving, we found Monica had sprouted fangs and Tyler forgot to go to the dentist....yuck!!!





As the night was winding down, Chewy fell promptly to sleep.
All of this monster stuff was too much for the little guy!!!

And Mr. B and I joined him shortly.



"When black cats prowl and pumpkins gleam,
may luck be yours on Halloween"

--Anonymous





Monday, October 29, 2018

Sisterhood

Song - Sierra by Boz Scaggs



Fall was definitely in the air up at Donner Lake this past weekend with warm days and crisp nights.  Leaves were dropping and swirling on the forest floor.



It was our 11th annual Girls Weekend and on Friday we headed up to the Sierra's for a few days of sisterhood, visiting, reading, shopping, relaxing, food and music.....oh......and quite a few laughs!




However this year things didn't go quite as planned. As Ellen and Barbara almost got locked up in the Truckee Jail!!!  This jail was used continuously from 1875 to 1964 and besides the two prisoners above, it has held notorious criminals such as Baby Face Nelson, Ma Spinelli and Machine Gun Kelly!  However, after we bailed these two out, we just went next door for a good cup of coffee.....


In historic downtown Truckee we did a lot of shopping and a little sightseeing







and we had a wonderful lunch together........




 ...at Moody's Bistro. (we were supposed to be mimicking the lady in the poster behind us but some of us - certainly not me - got confused)!



In the afternoon we relaxed around the cabin and then Ellen gave us a short but delightful talk on her passion of raising honeybees!  So many questions about the life of this very important little critter!




We played a late night game of Scrabble.....




I erased some of the words because of your delicate ears.....



But I promise....there was absolutely NO drinking involved!


"Just remember if we get caught, 
you're deaf and I don't speak English." 

 --Annonymous



PS - The menfolk seemed to adjust to their womenfolk being gone from the homestead just fine!




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